My mom and I will be having a getaway weekend to the spa and my dad said he would take me to the beach. They accused me of denying my daughter a family that could've helped raise her in many different ways. She's supporting my decision. Submitted 1 year ago by ReadingTop3083. They never bothered to get to know my wife either. AITA for not telling my dad about an award I was getting in school? My dad bought my brother a very expensive watch and paid for his trip to Europe when he graduated. He could see that I was upset and asked me if it wasn't enough in an irritated tone. Aita for not telling my dad about an award for best. My dad did asked about inviting her and I said no. He probably spend more than 25, 000 dollars on his graduation. I told him he could stay for me. Both my wife and I are deaf. My school only put the photos up a week ago and my dad was really upset. In my rage, I called the hotel to cancel the room and I didn't told my dad.
Despite all that, my family thinks that my wife's family takes care of us, i. e. help out financially, manage our finances and walk us through everyday tasks like buying groceries or paying bills. My dad's wife didn't want to be apart from her oldest or to separate her three kids, so she wanted to move as well. I told him that I wanted to go out and he said he was busy but wanted the give me my graduation gift and he said he will transfer 5, 000 dollars to my account. He married the other woman who had 2 kids, my step-sister Julia(17F) and my step-brother Josh (14M), while my dad cheated their mom didn't because their dad had already passed away. Aita for not telling my dad about an award ideas. I mean, I kinda get it. My wife (35F) and I (36M) live across the country from my family and we only visit for weddings, funerals and other big family-related events. As for my mom I explained her everything and after much crying from both parts, she apologized and hugged me because she didn't know.
I just feel like an ungrateful Asshole right now. I won't lie, I really enjoyed it, I could really talk with my dad, do fun stuff and be around him without having to wait for my stepbrothers to stop talking to him or anything. He told me he had to be with his family and that them staying was not an option. I have a successful career, and so does my wife, and we've been completely on our own since college. They just won't believe that we're intelligent and perfectly capable people who have done well for ourselves all on our own. If we went hiking or fishing, they had to come, if we went to the movies, had dinner outside or anything, they had to come. I have faded from him over time. That's another reason I keep them at arm's length. Growing up they only did the bare minimum: fed me, clothed me, made small talk but they never actually tried to get to know me or do anything beyond that. ETA: As someone suggested I'm adding this, the trip with my dad and the spa getaway with my mom was because I got an early acceptance nor because I was graduating high school, that why Julia had no business being there. Aita for not telling my dad about an award movie. I remember I used to cry at night because I couldn't understand. We have a healthy bank account, we travel a lot and we're ready to buy a nice house but we're waiting for the housing market to cool down. So he moved with them and then I went from seeing him all the time to seeing him for a few weeks in the summer.
My dad didn't even want to go out with me. My dad found out about this last week, but I got the award at the start of May. My older brother is not deaf and he's very close with my whole family. It was not like he got a full ride and they didn't spent anything on his education. I also informed my dad that since he keeps hurting me and putting his other family above what I explicitly ask him for then I would rather go NC with him and that he was currently uninvited to my graduation. Saying I'd have "siblings" all the time and how great it was there and stuff. I told him what was the point, that his choice was made 9 years ago that they were more important and my life didn't involve them anymore. I told him I wasn't trying to hurt him but that I was never going to have that relationship he wants after he left me to be with "his family" and that all choices have consequences which he and my mom taught me and that he is now living with his, in that his daughter doesn't want a relationship with him anymore. I told him I didn't want his money and left. That regardless of how I feel he has a right to know. He is the perfect son every parent would have wanted to have. I can talk and read lips but I'm often left out of their conversations. I was honestly really excited so I offered to pay for the hotel reservation because I wanted to feel mature (lo) my dad said no a bunch of times but I ended up convincing him. My dad sent a long text and told me that I would have gotten something better if I had studied harder.
They blamed my wife because they think that she controls me, which is not true at all. I only speak to him during court mandated times, and I don't see him unless I absolutely have to. That this was the last time and while I still love him and it hurts my heart that it has come to this, I can't keep doing it anymore, I asked him to not contact me again and I blocked him. Yet my family still reveres him as a smart and capable person. But again he said no. He went on about him being my dad and deserving to know and how proud he was, etc, and why couldn't I see, why was I out to hurt him. Before that I was a total daddy's girl, I adored him and I was glued to his hip, my mom encouraged me to keep a relationship with him after they split, his new wife family never paid much attention to me, they weren't mean nor good, but at first I always had to share my dad with them whenever I visited. He sent me a long text apologizing and my mom said that what I did wasn't okay and that I owe them an apology, apparently they're on their way back because they couldn't find an hotel. When they arrived he tried to check in and when he couldn't, he called me, I only said ''yeah, I cancelled it. '' My (17F) parents divorced ten years ago because my dad cheated on my mom.
I've never been close with anyone in my family: my grandparents, cousins, aunts, uncles, brother and father (single dad), because they never bothered to look past my disability. I'm this medicore girl who struggled through a CS degree. He told me he/they could have flown out to show support and it would have been a nice extra visit for us. They may have a point. I told him that it wasn't as he didn't even know what I liked to buy something I would like and I was getting way less than my brother got as always. When dad told me I begged him to stay. My brother somehow found out about my daughter's existence a few weeks ago. They didn't even learn sign language for me.
He doesn't have his life together. My dad found out via Facebook about the award. They think that we're both stupid and incapable of anything just because we can't hear. We were supposed to leave today but when he came to pick me up, my step-sister was there, he said it was a surprise since ''both of his girls'' were graduating, apparently she begged him to come with us and he agreed, saying that she could get his bed and he'll sleep on the floor between us. We're in our 30s, and they still treat us like children. His oldest stepkids dad was moving for work and she wanted to move with him, and the courts said that she could. It wouldn't be healthy for her to be around people who constantly disrespect her parents. Over the years they attempted to make it appealing for me to live with them.
So I never told them about my daughter. My dad always liked my brother more. I'm starting to wonder if my wife and I are selfish for keeping our daughter from a big family full of cousins her age because we have our own hang-ups about them. They still paid a portion of his fees and his living expense for the four years. Julia and I'll be graduating this summer, I got an early acceptance to my college of choice and when I told my parents, both decided to do something to celebrate. BG: My parents are divorced and until I was 7 my parents shared custody of me.
He works odd jobs, he has unstable relationships and he regularly mooches off people. He's a narcissist who has always treated me poorly and my family enables his bad behavior. I could feel my eyes burning and I told him that this wasn't the deal, he tried to convince me but he ended up leaving with her. I hope I've given enough context. His wife called after and told me I should have told him. We keep her off social media and I visited them only once since she was born, but she stayed home with my wife. We hate it, especially my wife who has purposefully not visited them since 2017.
My dad was remarried at the time, had three stepkids.
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