According to the OP, if Michelle compared herself in her current position with herself if she had not become a mother and had more opportunities to develop further, then she would definitely understand what mistake she made earlier. This weekend Anthony fell in the court and dislocated his shoulder. Created May 26, 2021. So, the Original Poster has an older brother, "Adam", who started dating "Michelle", a woman two years older than him, who already has a child, about a year ago. When her brother brought his fiancée and her son to a family dinner, the woman told them that she doesn't have a college degree, though she wants to get further education. My dad has stayed pretty silent but understands my feelings. When Michelle asked why she felt that motherhood had ruined her opportunities, the OP suggested that the woman just look at herself from the outside. Aita for telling my parents my brother is getting married and still. At that moment, Adam returned. The original post, published on the AITA Reddit community, garnered around 13. AITA For telling our parents my brother is getting married? This time the future SIL did not hide her upset, and the OP was already unstoppable.
And finally, someone else who goes by u/Choice_Werewolf1259 gave the man some advice. I told her that Bennie will always be my first priority, above her and Anthony. Another person with the username u/Fabulous-Ad-5284 gave their perspective on the situation, as someone who is infertile. Aita for telling my parents my brother is getting married now. "AITA For Telling My Brother's Fiancée That The Reason She Couldn't Get A Degree Was Because Of Her Choice To Be A Mom?
According to some people, the OP should learn how to keep her rude and classist opinions to herself. AITA For Telling My Brother's Fiancée That The Reason She Couldn't Get A Degree Was Because Of Her Choice To Be A Mom. We're pretty sure you already have your own opinion on this story, so feel free to write it in the comments. Hell, I would have gone full blown interpretative dance for you, if that is what it took to get it through their thick skulls that the wedding is gonna be childfree. I went to dinner at their house. "My fiancée saw the whole thing and thought that it was funny but my parents and Chris are livid beyond measure.
My mom lives about 20 minutes away. A similar story happened to this woman who, unwittingly, offended her brother's fiancee literally during their first detailed meeting. We knew he was gay, our dad was a pastor, so he told my brother to keep it a secret at least until he graduates. I asked my brother if our parents knew about his engagement, and he told me they didn't.
Adam and Michelle recently announced their engagement, according to the OP's own words. The OP told her that, in her own opinion, her future SIL didn't have a college degree because she become a mom pretty early. Bennie is ND and also has some health issues that cause seizures and fainting. The fiancée said that she's happy to have a child now, but the OP didn't believe her. I told her that wasn't the case and despite my past issues with her, Anthony had nothing to do with them. According to other commenters, the OP is acting like she lived a very sheltered life. 3K upvotes and over 4. She's calling me stubborn and accusing me of hating Anthony. Despite that, his wife kept sending my fiancée pics of my nephew when he was months old. Aita for telling my parents my brother is getting married and i am. It's interesting that when such words are taken as offensive, the people who expressed them are sometimes sincerely perplexed as to what actually happened, as they allegedly did not want to offend anyone. "My fiancée (F) and I (M) are getting married. I 24m live about 10 minutes from the house I grew up in. Such words are not good in themselves, and even more so when they are not expected from you.
Edit/INFO: I don't know where people are getting that I don't love Anthony. He has a chance to show them he's the bigger person now, and to apologize. She said I wasn't welcome at my dad's until I apologized. "My brother told me this might cause a rift in our relationship, I again said no and explained that the wedding is childfree. NFL NBA Megan Anderson Atlanta Hawks Los Angeles Lakers Boston Celtics Arsenal F. C. Philadelphia 76ers Premier League UFC. He asked what took me so long and I told him I was there with Bennie and that Bennie had a seizure and wasnt breathing properly. What could be worse? COPYRIGHT NOTICE: Things posted on this page are for use on Two Hot Takes podcast and accounts. When Michelle told him everything, the man left the house without further words, taking Michelle and her son with him. He rushed out after we argued. The only reason they never let him come home was because he was shit-talking them around town. He plays tennis and has been warned numerous times about protective gear during practice.
During the conversation at the table, the subject somehow turned to education, and Michelle admitted that she did not have a college degree, although she would very much like to continue her education. He's my little brother just like Bennie is. One user who goes by u/Dipping_My_Toes decided that the man definitely wasn't the asshole in this situation. I told him he was being childish, he needs to get over it and forgive them. I told them no, and to stop.
Probably one of the best ways to be labeled a toxic person these days is to hand out your own value judgments in situations where they are definitely not needed. I also did check in with him earlier today and he's fine and well aside from his shoulder hurting and not being able able play. "Well, I suppose you could have used hand puppets instead, but flashcards seem to have gotten the message across, " they said. This feels like basic common sense but somehow I'm being called an asshole. Asked for clarification on what she meant, the OP stated that there are a lot of college opportunities out there these days and one just needs to know how to use them. We've been communicating every few months, but he told me he was getting married. She said that Anthony was gonna pick up on the fact that I cared more about Bennie. Offended, the OP's brother left the house with his family and later criticized his sister heavily. When the divorce happened I opted to stay with her, so did my younger brother Bennie 17. My dad's wife met with us in the cafeteria and asked why I hadn't yet come to see Anthony since I was already here. I pulled them out and started slowly showing them the flash cards one by one in this order: 'The wedding (with a sticker of bride and groom). Image credits: COD Newsroom (not the actual image).
"They both were stunned. I can't stand his mom but I love my little brothers about the same. Subreddit for listeners of the Two Hot Takes Podcast! We've decided wedding's gonna be childfree. He asked again and pointed out how his baby is different since he's a rainbow, a miracle baby. They're telling everyone about the amount of disrespect and mockery I had displayed towards them and I'm being told to 'fix it' now. Most people in the comments slammed the OP for being so offensive as well. Image credits: Gareth Williams ( not the actual image). And in general, a woman should be more supportive instead of being so judgey. Bennie had a seizure and was alone and asked me to come take him to the hospital because he couldn't stand and his "face felt numb". Later, according to the OP, her brother criticized her heavily, stating that it was none of her business how Michelle lives and what choices she makes.
Perhaps, only to express value judgments on the basis of a superficial acquaintance with a person, having met them for the first time and forming an opinion about them on the basis of, well, "collective images". Submitted 1 year ago by qrstuvictor. The OP admits that after saying that, Michelle stared at her as if she'd just been told something really offensive. The Real Housewives of Atlanta The Bachelor Sister Wives 90 Day Fiance Wife Swap The Amazing Race Australia Married at First Sight The Real Housewives of Dallas My 600-lb Life Last Week Tonight with John Oliver. Comments, as always, are highly welcome. "I wanted kids all my life, me and hubby tried for years, it will never happen.
I asked if they get it now and Chris had lost his shit. Seeing his fiancée in tears, he wanted to know what had happened. She just doesn't have to judge other people on the basis that everything just happened to work out for her so far. I was filling out some paperwork for him in the lobby and saw my father come through the elevator. Posted by u/[deleted] 11 months ago. I think OP needs to have a serious conversation with his parents about how his brother was crossing a line with him and also his fiancée by trying to guilt her into bending.